Don’s Declaration of Love to his Wife, Nadine
I was not quite 18 years of age on December 20, 1948, when I started on this lifelong trip
of love with my girlfriend/wife. After spending the evening together and holding her body
close to mine followed by a goodnight kiss, I knew that I wanted more of that good
warm feeling I was experiencing. And here we are 70 plus years later and the feeling
is still there. I did and do love that girl.
This wonderful young girl, my life partner, bore the burden of all the logistics, management,
and labor of running a household, bearing and rearing children and even providing extra
income when possible. Those tasks have too many components to mention each item.
In addition, there were all the ancillary jobs of health care, nursing, sewing, chauffeuring,
making things, gardening, and yard care to mention a few - as well as being an attentive wife.
Our life together had its challenges and disappointments large and small like ever other
marriage. When things got too heavy, we would stop, hold each other close, talk, and pray.
Somehow, we made it work. I am so grateful. Our deep honest love has conquered all.
If I had do-overs, I would arrange my priorities to always make her first. I would work very
hard at giving her more of my time and attention, understanding her needs and wants,
acknowledging her efforts, council with her, and let her know that I truly do appreciate
all she does.
Nadine, you were truly God’s blessing to me. I ask your forgiveness for my shortcomings
and the times I disappointed you. I love you, my beautiful soulmate.
With Love, Don.
