Leaving a Mark

A few weeks ago, my dear friend lost her brother.  In her eulogy she wrote about the indelible mark he left on everyone he met.  This theme has been on my mind.  Tonight as I watched "It's a Wonderful Life," my thoughts have once again returned to this notion of leaving a mark.  It is a valid topic upon which to reflect.  The world is a different place simply because of our presence in it.  No matter who we are or what we do,  this place called home has been changed by us.  The friends we have made, the work we have done, the children we have borne have all had an effect on the world at large.  We each leave an indelible mark.  Although I admit that some will leave a deeper mark than others though their boisterous personalities or the large shadow they cast because of their role in the world.  But each of us has that power of one to use for good.  As a teacher, I touched many lives and it was just part of the job.  I understood that power but did not dwell on it.  Now in retirement with my focus on time and contribution, I am keenly aware of my impact.  A smile at the grocery clerk or cashier can completely make or change someone's day.  They will carry that good feeling with them and into their homes that night.  The service work I do for food pantries and students is changing lives.  What I read and think and share is all part of the mark I am leaving.  My prayer life holds those I know and care about up to a source greater than I am or can be on my own.  Through my meditation and contemplation, I make room for deeper spirituality.  In that space, a home is burrowed out for goodness and the world becomes a better place because I am in it.  Because I chose to think good thoughts or do good things, the world becomes kinder, more loving and more accepting.  This is true of every single person on the planet.  In this season of Christmas and gift giving, I ponder the gifts I am leaving, the purposeful as well as the unintentional.  To become more mindful and intentional results in greater goodness for all.  We are all connected and what I choose to do with this minute, this moment has the power to change your view and experience of the world, We are, each of us better for having been here.  The mark we leave behind is indeed indelible.